Ever have one of those days when you’re thinking to yourself – “Jesus – what else can happen?”
When your self-talk is saying “Why me?”
Yesterday, I had one of those days. Yet, after 8 hours of restorative sleep, I woke up with a fresh perspective and realized that there was, in fact, a silver lining behind each crummy thing that happened.
Let me explain.
It began when I opened my eyes. The fickle Mid-Atlantic weather that had caused the temperature to be 20 degrees the day before – was going to be 70. My sinuses react to changes in barometric pressure…and they were screaming. Like my maxillary sinuses were being pulled through my nostrils. With sharp tweezers.
And yet, I woke up in a nice warm bed. Next to the love of my life. In a house I own. Medicine was 10 feet away, and my “commute” to work was a short walk down the hall…..silver lining.
At the end of my work day, I decided to go grocery shopping, but as I got into my car, the battery was completely dead. And it’s not even 3 years old!!
Ok…this one is pretty easy. I have the ability to purchase food (as much as I need) in a climate controlled building a mile from my house…My car is less than 3 years old, its paid for, and because I work from home, I’m putting many less miles on it than I ever have…silver lining.
A few hours later, I needed to pay for something online and I couldn’t find my credit card! I knew I had it earlier in the day – but it was nowhere to be found!
And yet, I can purchase items on a computer, and someone will bring them to me. That’s way cool. My credit score is such that I can actually HAVE a credit card and I’m lucky enough that I have no speakable debt….AND after a quick phone call, I’m protected from fraud and a new card is on its way…..silver lining.
My purpose in all of this discourse? For those of us who, let’s face it – suffer primarily from “first world” problems, there are silver linings in almost every crummy, horrible thing that happens.
Got a roof over your head?
Clothes on your back?
Food in your belly?
People that love you? (That’s most important of all)
Then at the end of any crappy day, that’s all that really matters.
Find the silver lining.
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